I’m 29, a single mom to a three-year-old named Johnny. Daycare used to be his favorite place—until one Monday morning when he screamed, “No, Mommy, no! Don’t make me go!” At first, I thought it was separation anxiety. But each day got worse. Finally, I lost my patience and asked why. Through tears, he whispered, “No lunch. Please, Mommy… no lunch.” That weekend, I promised to pick him up before lunch. At 11:30, I peeked through the daycare window—and froze.
Johnny sat crying while an older woman with no staff badge shoved food at him, scolding, “You’re not leaving until that plate is empty.” I stormed inside, pulled him into my arms, and demanded answers. The director later admitted the woman—Miss Claire—was her aunt, an unvetted volunteer. When I filed a report, state inspectors uncovered more: overcrowding, underqualified staff, and children being forced to eat.
The daycare was shut down. Another mom later thanked me—her daughter had suffered too. Now Johnny’s at a new center with caring teachers. On his first day, one knelt and said, “You eat as much or as little as your tummy wants.” He smiled and ran off.
Watching him happy again reminded me: always listen when your child says something feels wrong. Those tiny words—“No lunch, Mommy”—were the only warning I needed.