While Valerie Bertinelli’s supporters praised her bravery and honesty, detractors questioned whether the post was appropriate. Comments ranged from accusing her of seeking attention to suggesting such a post was unnecessary for a woman of her age. This backlash highlighted ongoing societal discomfort with older women embracing their bodies in public ways.
Bertinelli addressed her critics with grace and defiance. In a follow-up post, she encouraged those passing judgment to reflect on their attitudes. Stating, “I hope you find a place in your heart to not judge yourself as harshly as you judge others.” She emphasized that her self-worth is not tied to others’ opinions, asserting that for the first time in her life, she truly loves her body as it is.
The actress has been open about her lifelong struggles with body image. Growing up in the spotlight, she faced public commentary about her weight from a young age. In her 2022 memoir, Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today, Valerie Bertinelli detailed her journey toward self-love and how societal pressures shaped her views on her body.