When my dad died last spring, the world went painfully quiet. He was my constant after Mom passed when I was eight—the bad jokes, the pep talks, the certainty that I’d be okay. For nearly a decade, it was just us, until he married Carla. Carla was distant, sharp-edged. When Dad died, she didn’t cry. At the funeral, as my knees buckled, she whispered, “You’re embarrassing yourself. He’s gone.” Two weeks later, she began “clearing clutter,” tossing his suits, shoes—and his ties—into trash bags.
Paisleys, stripes, silly guitar prints. I rescued them when she wasn’t looking. I couldn’t let them disappear. Prom loomed, unwanted. One night, sitting on my floor with that bag of ties, an idea formed. If Dad couldn’t be there, I’d bring him with me. I taught myself to sew and stitched the ties into a skirt—each piece a memory. When I finished, it felt like standing beside him again.
Carla laughed when she saw it. “It’s hideous,” she said. The next morning, my closet was open. The skirt lay on the floor, ripped apart. “I did you a favor,” she said coolly. I collapsed, clutching the ruined silk. My friend Mallory arrived with her mom, Ruth, a retired seamstress. She didn’t ask questions—just stitched. We worked for hours. The skirt was different afterward, visibly mended, but stronger.
I wore it to prom. The lights turned it into stained glass. People listened when I explained. I felt carried, not broken. I even won “Most Unique Attire.” “He’d be proud,” a teacher whispered. That night, police waited at home. Carla was arrested for insurance fraud using my dad’s identity.
Now my grandmother lives with me. The house feels warm again. The skirt hangs in my closet, seams showing. I like it that way. It reminds me that love doesn’t vanish when torn—it survives, stitched back together, stronger than before.