I never expected to question my mother’s priorities—until I saw the $1,800 receipt for a designer dress. She’s 70, and all my life, she’s been practical and selfless. She raised five kids on a tight budget, sacrificing everything for us—extra shifts, worn-out coats, and never once indulging in anything extravagant.

That’s why the dress shocked me. It wasn’t for a wedding or big event—just her book club and a luncheon. Meanwhile, my son is heading to college, and every dollar matters. I’d hoped she might help with tuition, even a little. So I asked her why. She didn’t get defensive.