2) What Servers Wish Diners Knew

  1. The Marathon Sitters
    Linger too long after eating and you tie up a table—and a server’s income. Tip well if you stay, or leave soon after finishing.
  2. The Menu Wafflers
    Changing your mind five times slows things down. Decide quickly, especially during busy hours.
  3. The Verbal Tippers
    Kind words don’t pay the bills. If service was great, tip 20% or more.
  4. The Surprise Bill-Splitters
    Want separate checks? Decide early and communicate clearly—it saves time and confusion.
  5. The Customizers
    Servers can handle preferences, but a dozen tweaks bog down the kitchen. Be clear, reasonable, and kind.
  6. The Phone-Zoned
    Put your phone down when the server comes by. Eye contact and a smile go a long way.
  7. The Closing-Time Diners
    Arriving just before close? Be quick, tip big, and say thank you.

Why It Matters
Servers are real people—students, parents, dreamers—working hard to make your night out smooth. Show appreciation with eye contact, kind words, and a proper tip. A little respect can turn a tough shift into a good one.