She tells me, “Dad, do you think I’m stupid? Dan and I are just friends.” Yesterday, she went to his birthday party in the city and stayed overnight. We live in the village, and while some parents might worry, I wasn’t too concerned. I know his address and have both his and his parents’ phone numbers.
In the evening, I received a call from his mother. She said, “Mr. Matthews, don’t worry. Thank you for trusting our son! Lena will sleep on the sofa in the living room, so don’t worry.” I thanked her for the reassurance, but I thought to myself—the only person I trust here is my daughter.
This situation made me realize that as much as I want to protect her, I also have to let go and trust her judgment. It’s a delicate balance between guiding her and giving her the freedom to make her own decisions. As parents, we need to recognize that our children are growing up and becoming independent, even if it’s not always easy to let go.