When my sister Lily told us she had stage-three cervical cancer, our world crumbled. My parents dropped everything and moved in with her to help. I wanted to visit immediately, but Lily said she needed time before seeing me. That should’ve been the first red flag, but we were too worried to question her.
Three weeks later, I finally saw her — bald, pale, wrapped in a scarf — and I believed everything. Over the next five months, I became her financial crutch, sending money for rent, bills, and “experimental treatments.” I gave up vacations, nice meals, even good dog food for my golden retriever, Sadie. Every time I offered to attend doctor visits, she refused.