Dinner is a daily event, often feeding 8 to 20 people, and Jeni shares budget-friendly meal ideas and grocery tips on YouTube. “We all feel the pinch,” she says, but staying organized helps stretch every dollar.

Despite the demands, the Bonells value their faith, humor, and teamwork. Though often criticized for having a large family, Jeni and Ray insist it’s the life they chose — and love. “It’s not for everyone,” says Ray, “but it works for us.”

Now grandparents, they continue to embrace the chaos with open arms and wide smiles. For the Bonells, love, laughter, and a lot of planning are the secret to making a big family work.