I gently asked my daughter again, and she said he hadn’t done anything specific, but sometimes stared too long or asked strange questions about our life before he arrived. She didn’t feel unsafe, just uneasy. When I confronted my stepson, he shut down and later texted me that he feels like an outsider in our home, lonely and unsure how to fit in.
Realizing he wasn’t creepy but just struggling to belong, I asked my husband if his son could stay with his mother for a few weekends while we figure things out. Now my husband is upset, my daughter is quiet, and my stepson won’t answer my texts. I’m unsure if I did the right thing or made things worse—and I’d really appreciate your advice.